Male Dating Tips

Why Women Flirt But Then Only Want To Be Friends By Marius Panzarella | 05-10-2007 http://www.datingsupportcenter.com

A common question that I get from my readers is, "Marius, how come a lot of women like to flirt with me but then tell me they just want to be friends when I try to make a move?"

One is that the woman was only flirting for fun and was not actually interested. Although flirting will usually occur when there is attraction (hence why the flirt-test is useful), flirting ALONE does not equal attraction. This is why the flirt-test requires you to keep advancing with your flirting, so that you will know if a woman is really interested or just stringing you along.

The other possibility is that she WAS interested, but you have screwed up by flirting back INCORRECTLY. For example, if a woman flirts with you and you confess your feelings for her because you figure she likes you anyway, then you will have broken the sexual chemistry. From that point on, the attraction is going to drop.

Either way, if a woman shows signs of rejection after flirting with you, simply pull back from the woman and flirt with other women in front of her. See how she reacts. Most of the time, this move will put you back into the game!